Cast of Characters

[Custodial Dad]
[The Ex]
[daughter]

My wife [StepMother]
My other children [siblings]
My many brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews.
My mother
Our pets

The Ex's FOUR fiances and The Ex's ex husband
The Ex's past in-laws
The Ex's parents and sister

The Ex's NINE different attorneys
Custodial Dad's two attorneys

Four therapists in [other state]
Daughter's therapist in [home state]

Teachers, Principals, Superintendents and Guidance Counselors at [school] in [home state]

[Home State] Department of Children and Youth
[Home State] Police Department

Friends, strangers and passerby's who witness the insanity that has become our life.

Monday

Web cam Update

[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Tue, Jul 1, 2008 at 8:41 AM
Reply-To: [the ex email]@[email].com
To: [Custodial dad email]@[email].com, [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com

[Custodial Dad],

Thanks for agreeing to try for cam session at 7pm tonight. 
You & [daughter] can have the same 7PM cam session Wednesday and Thursday also.
This will enable a fun weekend of firework shows and later mornings for [daughter] this holiday.
Maybe these can be a few nights of bedtime stories for all little tikes?

Thanks, [Custodial Dad] & [spelled incorrectly Step Mother].
I appreciate you accommodating this adjustment to July 6th cam session.

[daughter] can cam on Monday, July 7th AM or PM to share firework stories!
Will e-mail photos before session.

God Bless.
[The Ex]
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On Thu, Jun 26, 2008 at 10:46 AM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Thanks, [Custodial Dad].

We can IM for parenting conference. 
It is best for me weekdays, early in the AM-

I am up at 4:30AM to start the day and I can schedule slots from 5AM.  End time is at 6AM.

Afternoons are Ok for IM.  Any weekday.  Let me know. 

Evenings/nights are not good with [daughter]’s bed/bathtime and my school-work.

FYI: [daughter] is not in psych therapy.  She will warm up to the regular calls over time.
Thanks for working with me to take calls any night this week.  Just gives me more options for a good moment in which she might be likely to agree to the call

Option: We can do web cam next week on Wednesday night instead of Sunday? 
I respect that you and [Step Mother] may have holiday weekend plans.

I can have cam instead of calls available on Mon and Wed of the following week also since N will be here at home.  Maybe that will work. 

Let’s keep trying.

Let me know.
Thanks.
[The Ex]


--- On Sun, 6/22/08, [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Subject: Re: 2nd June Request for Parenting Communication Sessions Set-up
To: [the ex email]@[email].com
Date: Sunday, June 22, 2008, 8:26 AM


[The Ex]
It is now 8:27am and I will have my computer on until 9am
On Fri, Jun 20, 2008 at 10:03 AM, [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com> wrote:
[The Ex]

After our phone call I decided to memorialize the facts of the conversation:

a.  We re-confirmed the phone schedule of Monday and Wednesday at 6 pm even if [daughter] gets on and just says “Good Night.”  The length of the call will always be
dictated by [daughter], as always.
We also mentioned the Sunday morning webcam, and again it is quality of visit and dependence of schedule that is MORE important then length or content of
contact/conversation....
b.  I can not view pictures sent to text message... instead of my phone number, please enter [Custodial dad email]@[email].com and that will achieve the same goals by
similar means.
c.  There is no need to call and say [daughter] is going to call  Please have [daughter] call me directly or not as the case may be.
d.  I am very curious (and concerned) as to why [daughter] has a “Psych team” involved in her daily care.  Please let me know why she is undergoing such extensive
therapy.  I understand that she is probably traumatized with not seeing her father for close to four years but does it warrant a “team?”
e.  We can begin the “Parental Communication” immediately according to your schedule...  like I stated I believe and email will suffice but I am available most nights
after 9 pm excluding Thursdays for IM.
Thanks again

[Custodial Dad]

On Thu, Jun 19, 2008 at 7:12 AM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:

--- On Wed, 6/18/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Parenting Communication Sessions Set-up
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com, [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Date: Wednesday, June 18, 2008, 1:35 PM

--- On Wed, 6/18/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:

--
[Custodial Dad] X [last name]
[XXX]-[xxx]-0185
[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
~ And remember, no matter where you go, there you are.
Earl Mac Rauch, from “Buckaroo Bansai” ~

--
[Custodial Dad] X [last name]
[XXX]-[xxx]-0185
[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
~ And remember, no matter where you go, there you are.
Earl Mac Rauch, from “Buckaroo Bansai” ~

--
[Custodial Dad] X [last name]
[XXX]-[xxx]-0185
[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
~ And remember, no matter where you go, there you are.
Earl Mac Rauch, from “Buckaroo Bansai” ~

--
[Custodial Dad] X [last name]
[XXX]-[xxx]-0185
[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
~ And remember, no [Ex’s fourth other state lawyer]er where you go, there you are.
Earl Mac Rauch, from “Buckaroo Bansai” ~


[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Tue, Jul 1, 2008 at 11:04 AM
To: [the ex email]@[email].com
Bcc: [Step Mother] <[Step Mother’s email]@[email].com>

I can not be available on Thursday for the cam session... but thank you for scheduling additional contact this
week.  I look forward to seeing her tonight, tomorrow and Monday for webcam at 7 pm!
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[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Tue, Jul 1, 2008 at 6:04 PM
To: [the ex email]@[email].com
Bcc: [Step Mother] <[Step Mother’s email]@[email].com>

[The Ex];
Just got off the phone with you ... I will not text you while I am drivin nor will I condone your reading or texting while you are drivin (especially while my daughter
is in the car!) as both are equally unsafe and illegal in most states.  To be clear, I can NOT IM or [webcam software] during business hours as I am at work.  If you
would like, she can call instead.  I understand that [daughter] is sleeping and when/if she wakes up for dinner, you can have her call this evening or log on to
[webcam software].  If not, I will look forward to chatting with her tomorrow at 7 pm.  Otherwise, please review my responses to the flurry of emails you sent this
morning.
[Custodial Dad]
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