[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Mon, Mar 22, 2010 at 3:13 AM
To: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
What vaccines were given to [daughter]?
Awaiting response.
Thanks.
[The Ex]
From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
To: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
Cc: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[The Ex’s school].edu>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, March 15, 2010 3:33:26 PM
Subject: Re: [daughter]
[The Ex];
[daughter] had a good visit with the doctor and the dentist today. I’ve asked repeatedly for subsequent updates from you for other providers and you have yet to respond... we relied solely on the records I requested from [dentist] and Dr. [doctor]. I hope that no vaccines and/or tests were duplicated.
I am in awe with how much dental work [daughter] has needed in the past but we will ensure to put her on a good path. She’ll get yearly physicals at the doctor and her teeth cleaned every six months, as recommended. Her therapist, Dr. [home town therapist] has us meeting with him every week and there is nothing to really update as the last two appointments have been strictly intake.
She does have a talent show at school on Friday but I am unsure of the exact details. I will fill you in on that when I get them, she is singing a Jonas Brothers song with some other kids in her school. We will attempt to record it and if we are successful, I think I can email you a copy of her performance. I’m not sure if its her first talent show but we are all excited to finally be apart of her school activities.
She had a great party yesterday which is why we were unable to call She was having a blast with her friends and we all honestly forgot. Will make sure she calls you this evening. I realize for whatever reason you are simply refusing to respond to certain things but again, if you are able, I would love to schedule a [webcam software] session so that [daughter] can see you.
I am unsure of the information that you want, so if you find anything redundant or unnecessary, please just let me know.
x
[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name]
[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
On Mar 13, 2010, at 10:16 PM, [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] wrote:
> [The Ex];
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> It has come to my attention that you are inquiring about my children’s schedule. You asked [daughter] specifically where my children are in school, who is driving to pick them up and drop them off, their schedule, when my step son is with his father and other things that are of no concern to you.
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> This behavior needs to stop, if you inquire about MY children’s lives again, I will bring this matter before the [home town] Police as I feel it is a threat. Luckily, [daughter] is blissfully unaware of their true schedule but I will not be made to feel unsafe nor will I alter our schedule to protect my family from you. This is a cease and desist and you are on notice. [daughter] is free to discuss [daughter] things: her school, her activities, her schedule. My family is off limits effective immediately. There is no reason to ask things that do not affect you.
>
> Your family, specifically your mother, your sister, and your father are asking [daughter] to set up visitation with them. That is simply not going to occur at this juncture especially in the manner which they are demanding. They, as well as you, are not to set up A[other state]THING with [daughter]. I have asked that you solely make requests in writing, as the order dictates. Please respect this. I have told [daughter] that we, as adults will discuss in writing, what schedule she has or doesn’t have and she shouldn’t concern herself with these things.
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> In addition, I extended myself to your family only to have my telephone ring incessantly with their attempts at trying to reach [daughter]. Your mother telephoned six times and your father three times over the course of 15 minutes. You yourself call my home repeatedly, despite the order stating that you may call ONCE per day. I am in awe of the audacity of you and your family members but it is obvious, you have no respect for court orders. I have forwarded your families calls directly to voice mail since they have disregarded my request of leaving one message instead of calling repeatedly. [daughter] will accept your call as long as we are not in the middle of something however, she will not be allowed to stay on the telephone all day as you requested she do today.
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> [daughter] is eating a balanced diet, she has clothing and shoes suitable to the weather, school supplies, plenty of underwear and toiletries including lotion, hair accessories, chapstick, scarves that were purchased by her for her. [daughter] has all that she requires for school and home. My requests for her things were to make her comfortable not that I was begrudging buying her items. We took her shopping already, anything you send will be of sentimental value as she really is not in need of anything. She left her sleeping bag here last summer, everything else including her jewelry was purchased by myself or [Step Mother] over the years.
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> Lastly, please stop interrogating [daughter]. [daughter] is only 8 years old and doesn’t need to be grilled by you on a daily basis on what she is doing and what my schedule does or does not consist of. This behavior is akin to stalking and is very unhealthy. If you have a specific question, please direct it to me, in writing and stop asking [daughter].
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> [Custodial Dad]
[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name]
[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
Mon, Mar 22, 2010 at 8:58 AM
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
[The Ex]:
Before I answer your question, please answer my question:
What is the updated doctor, dentist, opthamologist/optometrist information for [daughter]? I have requested this information for almost 20 days with no response. [daughter] is wearing glasses and I would like to know why. She would have needed an exam before you purchased glasses for her and since you did not utilize my insurance, I have no records about where she went.
[Custodial Dad]
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The [last name] [last name]s <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].net>
Fri, Mar 26, 2010 at 10:09 AM
To: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
Cc: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[The Ex’s school].edu>, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
[The Ex];
[daughter] emailed you several times this week and there was no contact Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday. I texted you Wednesday and Thursday night, to all of the various numbers associated with you, with no response.
[daughter] is frustrated and saddened by the fact that the only address she knows ([other state address]) has refused her letters;
the email address she knows ([the ex email]) is not being responded to;
and there are so many phone numbers associated with you, it would take us too long to telephone each and every one every night since you show no consistency in use - which is why I text you as a reminder to call
The order says contact is daily and because of your vagabond lifestyle, make it easier on [daughter] and call us directly. Please see the contact schedule as set forth by Dr. [home town therapist] that was emailed to you previously.
One last note: [daughter] is going on a month living in [home state] and yet you have failed at your promise to send [daughter] up some of her belongings. I know she stopped asking for things because we were able to make some substitutions but I think you can make this transition a bit easier on [daughter] by sending her some items and a photo or two for her room.
[Custodial Dad]
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The [last name] [last name]s
[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].net
[last name] & [last name]s <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
Sat, Mar 27, 2010 at 7:51 PM
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[The Ex’s school].edu>, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
[The Ex]
I had a call from a young lady by the name of [other state friend](spelling?) today for [daughter], I allowed the call so as NOT to disappoint the child but explained to the adult with her (mother? nanny?) that there will be NO FURTHER CONTACT until you have set this up with me - in advance and after you have given me the contact-person’s information. I’ll not stand for you handing out my family’s personal information (i.e. phone numbers, names, address etc) to people I do not know. This is not the first instance of this however, this needs to be the last time I need to remind you to respect my family’s privacy...
[daughter] also questioned me about stamps on her mail to you... please let’s not act stupid, ok? The letters were REFUSED at your alleged [address in other state][third state] address as evidenced by the refusal sticker affixed by the US Postal Service. The Judges order dictates that inform us of your address so our daughter will not have the HEARTBREAK of returned mail and she already has had two letters returned in less than a month.
Also you requested something “time stamped.” I have no idea what it is you refered to in the text but I have no desire to become adversarial with you. I sent texts to you several nights in a row that went unresponded to whether by phone call or return text. Like I stated in text, with the various numbers associated with you, I can not call each number on the appropriate call-night to determine which one it is you are using that day but I can send a bulk text to all of your phone numbers in one instance. Additionally, [daughter] is already disappointed with the mail and email situation, I will not set her up to call you when I am unsure if you have time, signal or availability to accept her call
Lastly, I will remind you of the order again which states that visitation and schedules are to be discussed between us. You are habitually setting up calls, contact and visitation with third parties with [daughter] directly, in complete opposition of the order. Please refrain from doing so in the future.
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