PTA cookies have HAIR in them?

[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 

Wed, Aug 18, 2010 at 3:31 PM 

To:   [Custodial dad email]@[email].com

Cc:   [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com 

     

[Custodial Dad]:

      What are you telling [daughter]?

I understand from parents at the open house that you and [spelled incorrectly Step Mother] told the children -

to everyone’s horror at your untrue statements-

that the cookies on the table for the kids HAD HAIR in them.  So they could not have cookies there.  That is what the Dad said... and that is perplexing, at best.

Wow.  how embarassing.  I was embarassed for my daughter that such a display was made by her family.

I was certainly not surprised, but embarassed for [daughter] by the hostile remarks and behavior by you and [spelled incorrectly Step Mother] to

  other parents, including school administrative staff.... STAFF?  What are you doing at our child’s school to help her be comfortable?

It is so important ot maintain good relationships and respect the energy and care that our children;s teachers give our daughter.

Please correct your behaviors at once, as the school is an essential part of a child’s healthy development with her peers and it is a PRINCIPLE place for that child to show their growth, social skills.  Let’s make sure you are nice to people.  Let’s make sure [spelled incorrectly Step Mother] is nice to staff.  STAFF- do I need to explain? 

We have to be there for [daughter] and support her school.

Thanks.

[The Ex]

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[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>  Wed, Aug 18, 2010 at 8:28 PM 

To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 

      No that did not occur as your friend stated - she either misunderstood or is completely oblivious...  what was stated was, as you are very well aware, my two sons have a DAIRY allergy and they could not consume any of the baked goods.  In actuality,there were several parents present who understood and we bonded the challenges of raising allergic children.

Of course my wife, whom is friendly with ALL the staff at [SCHOOL] including Principal [teacher], has several witnesses to corroborate the truth.  To eliminate any future incidences, we will speak to the President of the PTA and Mr. [teacher] directly to ensure that any further incidences with your friend do not occur as NO adult, who is a stranger to both my wife and I, should try and whisper in a minor child’s ear without a parent present ever.  That was completely inappropriate as I am sure you would agree.

Your pathetic attempts to vilify my wife as something she is not is sad.  I truly hope your actions are not born of jealousy and resentment.  And what is embarrassing is your attempts at case making.  You are the one solely escalating your costs of litigation to a situation unlikely to change due to your continued behavior. 

[Custodial Dad] [last name] and [Step Mother] [last name] - [last name]

[sibling] • [daughter] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling]

[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com

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[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>  Wed, Aug 18, 2010 at 11:38 PM 

To:   [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com> 

      [Custodial Dad],

     

I was an educator in [home state].  A teacher and a literacy program provider.  People know [daughter].  My business email has been the same for over six years.

Whispering?

What whispering are you talking about?  Please explain.  I want to understand your concerns.

Actually, I can’t begin to imagine your concerns.

Is a boy!  No?

I guess you mean “he.”  I assure you that other people are NOT dumb or  “obvilious” to what they see.  That would make someone DELUSIONAL.  You or them.  Pick one.

Our actions define us.  [spelled incorrectly Step Mother] is defined by hers at my daughter’s school.  You are defined by yours... well you know...

And back the the harassing “romantic accusations”...

Now you think I want you to be - to quote you-

  “one of my many boyfriends?”

You have a child , [daughter] [last name], in your home with undetermined neck pain, a cough going on two weeks, and a possibly misplaced palate extender that has NOT been seen by a professionaX

What are you doing defaming my character?  How do you find the time? 

Please prioritize.

[The Ex]

From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

Sent: Wed, August 18, 2010 8:28:44 PM

Subject:    Re: PTA cookies have HAIR in them?

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[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>  Wed, Aug 18, 2010 at 11:54 PM 

To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 

     

Keep in mind, this was [Step Mother] and my son’s school long before we even thought of it being our daughter’s school. 

Re-read, no one made any reference to your “romantic” nor marital situation at all  After you unhinged and called yourself a whore, I have been very certain not to set you off again.

What are you speaking of in the balance of this email, as this is not coherent, yet again.

You are right, we are defined by our actions and you have certainly been long defined by yours.

[Custodial Dad] [last name] and [Step Mother] [last name] - [last name]

[sibling] • [daughter] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling]

[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com

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