[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Wed, Apr 14, 2010 at 5:14 PM
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
[Custodial Dad],
Got your message dated 4/13/2010.
The two weeks are confirmed- August 1st through 15th, 2010.
I would like another week- at least, so please let me know - tag a week on before or after this 8/1-8/15 time or do seperately.
(Ordered time is only a minimum. We can certainly extend from 15 day minimum.)
As I notified you,
I will take [daughter] from August 1st, or before- through August 15th, 2010- and can extend after.
As you were comfortable with last year,
you can bring her to my mother’s home on [street] in [community], [town in third state], [third state], as we did last summer.
Drop off: You are welcome to bring [daughter] on Saturday, July 31st at 6:00PM so she can wake up with us on her first day with “Momma.” We can do dinner and bath with [daughter] on this first night.
Pick-up: You can pick her up at 7:00 PM on Sunday, August 15th so we can share dinner, if that works for you.
She can be in PJs for bed on transfer to you.
Travel to [other state]: We will bring her down to [town in other state], [other state] on either July 31st or August 1st via airplane.
When we are booking the flight, we will all have full flight information and I will send it to you via email.
Travel to [THIRD STATE
We will have her available for pick-up on August 15th in [third state].
She will be with me/ my family in [third state] and in [other state] for her stay.
Transportation:
flight: Attached is potential flight information. We can estimate between $300-400,+/- $100, for round trip ticket for [daughter].
All times are suggestions and may be changed to work the best for all, reasonable to visit schedule of course.
Let me know.
I will continue to search fares and will book the best rate. Will send as soon as I book.
Kind Regards,
[The Ex] [XXX].[xxx]-5236
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Sent: Tue, April 13, 2010 3:56:23 PM
Subject: Fw: Call schedule, psych info, summer request
[Custodial Dad]:
I will take [daughter] on in August, as you have scheduled.
Th.anks.
[The Ex]
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From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
To: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
Sent: Wed, March 10, 2010 5:49:36 PM
Subject: Call schedule, psych info, summer request
[Custodial Dad];
I understand to call at 7pm.
I understand that you will update me on her psychology session.
I will be available to participate in her psych sessions as you inform me of session schedule.
I understand that I am invited to call her guidance counselor.
You have sent the medical and dental office information but I have yet to recieve the psychologist information.
Summer 2010: I will take [daughter] this summer for the scheduled time. Please send possible dates for 15day time sharing.
[daughter] misunderstood me. She is still just 7-8 years old. These changes are sudden and big for a child. I’m sure she is just trying to sort it all out.
Appreciate the contact and hope that your family is well.
God Bless.
[The Ex]
From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[The Ex’s school].edu>
Sent: Tue, March 9, 2010 11:56:34 AM
Subject: [daughter] Update
[The Ex];
You are not replying or acknowledging my emails and I will just assume that you are reading them.
[daughter] is attending [school] Elementary and her teacher is Mrs. [teacher]. [school] was not accepting late registrants although we appealed to Dr. [teacher], the [home town] Superintendent, she could not attend [school]. Her Guidance Counselor is Mrs. [guidence counselor]. You are more than welcomed to call them.
She is doing very well. She has already made friends at school, she loves her new teacher and she is just shinning. I am very proud of the adjustment she is making thus far but we have an appointment with a therapist this evening.
She is telling the school that you are picking her up, I think you need to confirm that you will not be doing so, at least not until the summer. Its not really appropriate that you tell her these things because its simply not going to occur. I think its better to address the situation as it is instead of giving her false hopes. The guidance counselor agrees with this statement, please try to respect that.
I overheard [daughter] shouting last night about her door. She was upstairs in her room but was very loud as we all heard her. She has a door, she changes in the bathroom or with her door shut. She has privacy and knows how to make herself comfortable. I am saying this, although I have no real reason to explain it to you but so that no more false accusations are thrown by you.
I think for now we need to limit the conversations a little bit, in time NOT in frequency. [daughter] just seems very upset with the conversations. I’ll address this more with the psychologist tonight and will relay his findings. If he feels it is appropriate, I will of course include you in on the sessions, if you want to be included. For now, a short call every night and a long [webcam software] or Sunday call to [daughter]’s wishes would be better.
FYI: Bedtime is at 8PM. [daughter] typically showers at 7:30PM and so please try to call around 7PM, like I stated previously so she adjusts to the schedule appropriately. I am in no way, playing the ridiculous games that you did. I see the importance in [daughter] maintaining a relationship with you and your family. I’m contacting grandparents to let them all know [daughter]’s contact information. Please forward the information to [daughter]’s Aunt and Uncle as well.
Thank You;
[Custodial Dad] [last name]
[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name]
[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
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[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
Wed, Apr 14, 2010 at 9:07 PM
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[The Ex’s school].edu>
[The Ex];
I propose noon on Aug 1st until noon on Aug 15th. It is unreasonable to expect me to drive to [town in third state] (that late and that far for) and back for the exchange for both drop off and pick up.
We can meet at [city third state] Airport at noon on each given day, unless [daughter] is staying in [THIRD STATE
We can do the tickets one of two ways, you can purchase the ticket and I will refund you one half of the price after you forward me proof of purchase or I can purchase [daughter] a direct ticket home and you will be soley responsible for her flight to [town in other state]. She is old enough to fly unattended on a direct flight. I can get her a direct ticket from [town in other state] to [town in home state] Airport, which is the most convenient airport for us. If you wish to accompany her, that will be your expense soley.
As for extended vacation, we will take it as it comes. We need to play that one by ear as there are many, many uncertanties already in place for this vacation. For instance, let us establish that contact will be daily for [daughter] and I, without interference, schedules, dropped calls or other various excuses that you have employed from time to time. I will also expect to know the exact location and verifiable address of where [daughter] will be staying PRIOR to her travels to [other state]. I will not allow her to be anywhere that I do not have an accurate and true address for and the [other state address] address will not suffice.
[Custodial Dad]
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[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name]
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[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Thu, Apr 15, 2010 at 4:12 PM
To: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]:
I accept noon to noon, August 1st - 15th, with transfer at [city third state] Airport.
Jet Blue ticket desk inside will be fine for exact place, at airport time of noon.
I plan to travel with [daughter], so I will purchase tickets and will send you confirmation for your records.
Phone: I will be able to be reached at [XXX]. [xxx]. 5236, as is. [daughter] will call you or you can call her at that number every day. We can set a time or keep the 7PM call time. Please come up with solutions for the problems you expect with communication. Want her to have a cell phone on her? I may be able to do that. Waht would be your expectation for her to “make contact with you” via phone? Message if you’re not there ok with you? To simplify, we can all just call/ answer at the set time. Let me know.
Location: [daughter] will holiday in her Gateway home, Townhouse 903, 9465 [street in other state], [town in other state], [other state].
Will send flight info both ways for [daughter].
Thanks.
[The Ex]
From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[The Ex’s school].edu>
Sent: Wed, April 14, 2010 9:07:12 PM
Subject: Re: Summer Confirmation + flight, rates, attached jet blue info
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[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com> Thu, Apr 15, 2010 at 11:00 PM
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[The Ex’s school].edu>
[The Ex];
Just to reconfirm August 1st at noon (12PM) - August 15th at noon (12PM) are the dates that [daughter] will be with you for this summer vacation.
Thank you for confirming your address.
A 7PM phone call every night will suffice, all I ask is once a day [daughter] be allowed and able to check in with her family.
We will confirm location for drop off and pick up pending ticket and flight confirmation.
[Custodial Dad]
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Tue, Jul 27, 2010 at 11:01 AM
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
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Subject: Re: Summer Confirmation + flight, rates, attached jet blue info
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